tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2801070945500054961.post8695753739011531915..comments2023-05-11T05:19:56.827-07:00Comments on justonemore: Niblet isn't having it (Part 1)justonemorehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08347973233337053745noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2801070945500054961.post-27163179568300626602016-05-05T10:53:54.420-07:002016-05-05T10:53:54.420-07:00Sometimes we have to burst the bubble. So sorry mo...Sometimes we have to burst the bubble. So sorry momma. When does it get easier?justonemorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08347973233337053745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2801070945500054961.post-24868289830425535432016-05-05T10:53:45.875-07:002016-05-05T10:53:45.875-07:00Sometimes we have to burst the bubble. So sorry mo...Sometimes we have to burst the bubble. So sorry momma. When does it get easier?justonemorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08347973233337053745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2801070945500054961.post-35513124051340972642016-05-05T10:52:33.353-07:002016-05-05T10:52:33.353-07:00Yeah that was pretty much the gist of Niblet's...Yeah that was pretty much the gist of Niblet's pitch.justonemorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08347973233337053745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2801070945500054961.post-79364510506433867282016-05-04T21:14:05.583-07:002016-05-04T21:14:05.583-07:00I totally thought I had commented on this, maybe i...I totally thought I had commented on this, maybe it was a different post, anyway here it is (potentially) again. <br />G's newest thing is Mom! Let's buy an orphan! <br /><br />So many levels of wrong. Ameliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07115154893444857726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2801070945500054961.post-16857924653014032282016-05-02T09:06:38.343-07:002016-05-02T09:06:38.343-07:00It always rips me up when my kids ask if I'll ...It always rips me up when my kids ask if I'll have another baby--or, worse, when my youngest says, Don't worry, Mom, you'll have another baby soon. Ugh. Heartbreaking. I hate to burst their bubble, but life just isn't fair sometimes. Tracy10https://www.blogger.com/profile/00810271833102254791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2801070945500054961.post-25114393744954002772016-05-02T07:55:00.686-07:002016-05-02T07:55:00.686-07:00Naomi, I am so sorry for your struggles.
Yes, I th...Naomi, I am so sorry for your struggles.<br />Yes, I think that at the end of the day, the pain of these experiences never disappears, it just manifests itself in different ways. I too have been as firm as possible with my daughter that she learn to understand that sometimes we really can't get everything we want. It's a work in progress, I guess. Huge hugs, and thank you for your comment.justonemorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08347973233337053745noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2801070945500054961.post-22506198719239586762016-04-30T14:17:54.690-07:002016-04-30T14:17:54.690-07:00Hi. I've been reading for a while but not comm...Hi. I've been reading for a while but not commented before. These conversations are so hard and leave me reeling for days. It may sound harsh, but right from the start I told my daughter that you can't always get what you want in life (in my case, since she has been old enough to ask, there has been zero chance of a sibling) and she seems to accept this. It's been a very hard lesson to learn as an adult, but I figured that if I taught it to her early, she would deal with life's disappointments better. We'll see if it works! I haven't had a sibling question from her for a while, but you've made me realize they will probably keep coming back once she is old enough to know about things like adoption (she's currently four). Anyway, I'm rambling. What I really wanted to say is thank you for writing about this. I find that so many secondary infertility bloggers often stop mentioning infertility, or only mention it very rarely, after a year or two of TTC #2, which makes me feel very isolated. While I'm very sorry to read about your painful experiences, it's comforting to know I'm not the only one whose family is still struggling to come to terms with being a family of three.<br /><br />NaomiAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01912492128662300736noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2801070945500054961.post-32671138535295548512016-04-29T08:28:25.051-07:002016-04-29T08:28:25.051-07:00Niblet is right. It really is unfair. :( HugsNiblet is right. It really is unfair. :( HugsChantalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09558554593486447821noreply@blogger.com